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Being Black VI: The Pain Of Black Masculinity In An Age Of White Patriarchy

Being Black VI: The Pain of Black Masculinity in an age of White Patriarchy

25 October 2021

This month’s blog explores the intersections between systemic patriarchy and white supremacy. Told through the personalised experiences of black pain, this blog calls for allies from those who would see themselves as such but who are unconsciously complicit in the oppression of blackness.

Supremacy Burning: Cultural Narcissism And The Abuse Of The Other

Supremacy Burning: Cultural Narcissism and the Abuse of the Other

13 September 2021

Through the personal, to the collective, this month’s blog explores an experience we all have, that of enduring cultural narcissistic abuse.

Being Black IV: The Strengthsitivity Of The Black Father

Being Black IV: The Strengthsitivity of the Black Father

16 July 2021

This month’s blog is a further exploration of black fatherhood from both a personal and psychological perspective, and is especially relevant in the age of Black Lives Matter.

Shaking Off The Shackles Of Adapted Black Masculinity

Shaking off the Shackles of Adapted Black Masculinity

28 June 2021

In this, the third exploration of black masculinity, we now consider the role of adaptation, its drivers both political and social, and how this not only saves black men, but also leads sadly to sense of inauthenticity and loneliness.

The Lockdown Diaries Pt 2: Lessons In (Black) Happiness

The Lockdown Diaries Pt 2: Lessons In (Black) Happiness

26 April 2021

Part two of an extensive exploration of the trials and tribulations of the past year, and looks at how this has impacted upon us all.

End Of Year Blog

End of Year Blog

1 April 2021

The CoronaVirus is not so much the cause of the panic we are seeing around the West. It is the lack of direction from those we ask to watch over us, from those we nominate to be our political parents.

If I Was Your Boyfriend: Love And The Black Man

If I Was Your Boyfriend: Love And The Black Man

3 March 2021

This is about us, black men, talking about what love is, and about me opening another doorway to this exploration for us all.

#Mockingbird: The Writings Of A Black Boy

#Mockingbird: The Writings of a Black Boy

28 February 2021

Childhood experiences which helped shape the man I am and who wrote the book Intersections of Privilege and Otherness in Counselling and Psychotherapy.

Rage Of A Black Man

Rage of a Black Man

31 January 2021

This new year was supposed to be a new beginning, a new start, the first steps along the road towards the exit of this pandemic. Yet, here we are in the United Kingdom, under a third national lockdown, prompted by rising infection rates influenced by the mutation of this Covid-19 virus so it has become more infectious, more dangerous to us all.